Unassisted Home Birth
April 16th 2008 8:58 pm
Sunday April 13th: My mucus plug started to come out. No Surges.
Monday: More mucus, some surges. My mom came into town from California.
Tuesday: I had some surges, the family came over to help me get things going-rubbing my ankles, and my hands. My biggest thought today was that my midwife was going out of town tonight and I wanted her at the house. This time, the pressure to have a baby was a little greater. Also, throughout this day I did a lot of nipple stimulation and took my prenatal vitamins (they had blue cohosh). These herbs induce the labor. By 7 pm I still wasn’t having consistent surges so I felt a little discouraged. Renelle came over to see how things were going and she checked me. She said I was at a 5 and that was wonderful. I still felt a little discouraged because I thought she was leaving town. She did decide to stay one more day and that was great new. Then tonight Rob and I spent some time together and that helped bring more surges. We watched in intense movie. They still didn’t stay around.
Wednesday (Birthday): My day started out mellow. I took Hanna to song time at the library. Throughout the day I would have surges, so I decided to hang out at home. They weren’t consistent until the evening. Around 5:30 pm I finally was having them every 3-4 minutes. They were a little uncomfortable in my back, but not bad. Renelle came over around 7. She checked me once more and I was at a 10. She said it would be fine to get into the tub (which we had refilled 3 times already). I felt excited because I knew that would relieve some of the pressure in my back. For the next hour I had a surge every 3 minutes and I could feel the baby descending down. After I got into the tub, I never had my midwife come back to help me. I was prepared to do this by myself. Rob came in for awhile (our bedroom). My mom came by and so did the girls. Then time was getting closer, so I had Rob stay with me. 8:45 pm I felt more of a surge to push or bear down. I mad some interesting noises, but within 5 minutes, I could feel my body completely stretched out and the baby was almost out. It was pretty intense to push my own baby out. I was the one to encourage myself. It was pretty empowering. Before the end came, Rob offered a prayer and waited. I remember saying to Heavenly Father, I am ready to be done, please allow only two more of these. And a couple more push/breathes, her head came out. Rob ran for our midwife, “the head is out” he said. Then when he came back I had pushed the whole baby out. I felt such a great relief once she came out. I looked at the sex and the umbilical cord was kind of covering the sex, so I thought is was a boy. I shouted out and then our midwife yelled, it’s a girl. Girl #3! Miriam Joy was born April 16, 2008 8:58 pm in Lehi, Utah.

